Call Me By Your Name Tour of Northern Italy

Milan, Metropolitan City of Milan, Italy

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Oscar Wilde Tours
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May 16 - 26, 2025
Group size: 7 - 16
Call Me By Your Name Tour of Northern Italy
Milan, Metropolitan City of Milan, Italy

Oscar Wilde Tours
  • Email address verified
12 reviews

May 16 - 26, 2025
Group size: 7 - 16

About this trip

The movie of Call Me By Your Name touched a deep chord for many people, especially (of course) for many members of the gay community. It reminded us of the pain—but also the beauty of early romances. And of course, it was also set in a beautiful area, the historic small cities and lovely countryside of *Northern* Italy—the area along the Po River and around the lakes between Milan and Venice.

Discover another fabulous part of Italy

 In fact, this is a fabulous area of Italy, though less visited than Rome or Florence or Capri. It contains a long string of stunning, historic cities, a wealth of cultural history (think Stradivarius, Palladio, Verdi, Giorgio Armani), amazing local cuisines—as the home of famous dishes like ragù, lasagna, and risotto, foods like prosciutto di Parma, parmigiano, and aceto balsamico, and wines like Barbera, Dolcetto, Amarone etc—and also a lot of LGBTQ+ history, from Leonard Da Vinci to Death in Venice to Luca Guadagnino (and if we can mention someone who is just a gay icon, Thomas Ceccon too!)

Lovely cities and beautiful countryside

 So come let Oscar Wilde Tours help you discover this fantastic region in May 2025. We will explore Milan and Venice, but also other cities like Verona and Vicenza, two of the lakes in Italy (and Switzerland’s) beautiful lake region, great cathedrals, architectural masterpieces, 1 prison (where Casanova was in jail!), several regional cuisines, and a heaping helping of LGBTQ+ history, from Leonardo’s Milan to Thomas Mann’s Venice, and including of course a tour of the beautiful places where Call Me By Your Name was filmed.

Elio, Tadzio, and More!

Take the vaporetto with Gustav von Aschenbach. Stroll to the watering hole where Elio and Oliver kiss. And have a coffee in the square where they hang around flirting, on Oscar Wilde Tours’ Call Me By Your Name Tour of Northern Italy.


Note: there will be two chances to attend the opera on this tour, at Milan’s famous Teatro alla Scala and Venice’s great Fenice theater. Please let us know if you are interested asap.

Highlights

  

Highlights:

A day tour of shooting locations of Luca Guadagnino’s masterpiece (so far): Call Me By Your Name 

Lots of Leonardo in Milan, with the Last Supper and much more

A chance to attend the opera in the Teatro alla Scala and/or the Teatro La Fenice

The baroque masterwork of Isola Bella on Lago Maggiore

One of the least-visited landmarks of gay history, the Elisarion in Switzerland’s Canton Ticino (just wait!)

Sirmione, the charm spot on Lago di Garda, from Catullus to Maria Callas

2 stunning small cities: Verona and Vicenza, with the famous ancient amphitheater of Verona and Palladio’s masterpieces in Vicenza (including the Villa La Rotonda, on which Thomas Jefferson modelled Monticello)

A tour of Venice focusing on Casanova (always sexy, although *mostly* straight) and Death in Venice, plus a splendid Venetian palazzo with plenty of gay art

What’s included

  • Hotels during tour
  • Transport during tour
  • All admissions during to
  • Escort and guides
  • Meals
    10 breakfasts, 7 lunches, 2 dinners, one cooking class, one wine tasting, and one cheese tasting

What’s not included

  • Transport
    before and after tour
  • Travel insurance
    we strongly recommend but do not provide
  • hard liquor
    wine generally included with meals
  • tips
    for guides and drivers

Available Packages

tour in shared room
Deposit:$1,000
Available until March 16, 20255 left

double occupancy, for couples or pairs of friends who want to share a room—or for singles who want to share a room with another single, if we can find you a room-mate

$7,740
Deposit:$1,000
private single
Deposit:$1,000
Available until March 16, 20255 left
$9,240
Deposit:$1,000

Available options

Pretour hotel night shared
$150
Deposit: $0

1 night in Hotel Sanpi Milan May 15-16, per person double occupancy

Pre tour hotel night single
$250
Deposit: $0

1 night in Hotel Sanpi Milan May 15-16, private single room 



Itinerary

Day 1. Fri May 16
Welcome to Milano

Milan is Italy’s modern metropolis: the 2nd largest city, the financial center—and the center of the cool industries for which Italy is noted, fashion and design. But it also has a lot of history, including LGBT+ history! This afternoon, we visit Milan’s most famous landmark, the cathedral, Italy’s most important Gothic monument, with its amazing combination of solidity and lightness. Just wait till we get up on the roof, among the forest of spires! We then take a stroll out of Piazza del Duomo into “Milan’s living room,” the stunning Galleria, the queen of shopping malls—19th century shopping malls that is. The Galleria has been here since the first years of Italian national unity and still contains some of its oldest and most prestigious stores and cafés, such as Camparini, the house bar of the Campari company, which opened here in 1915—where we will stop for—what else?—Campari and soda. We then walk out into the so-called Quadrilatero della Moda (the fashion rectangle). Milan is the home of many of the world’s most famous fashion houses: Armani, Versace, Valentino, Prada, Missoni, Ermenegildo Zegna, and more. And this is the center of their world, where among other things, Milan Fashion Week takes place. Finally, we take off for the city’s hippest neighborhood, the Navigli (pronounced Navílyi). The Navigli are a system of canals, built in the middle ages to connect landlocked Milan to Northern Italy’s major river system, and redesigned by Leonardo Da Vinci, the ultimate Renaissance man—artist, scientist, engineer—and the ultimate gay genius! In recent years, the neighborhood of artisans’ workshops along the canals has become a warren of chic restaurants, cafés, and art galleries. Our welcome dinner will be in a lovely café right on a canal, where we begin to get acquainted with Milan’s culinary specialties, such as (of course) risotto alla Milanese and cotoletta alla Milanese.


Hotel (5 nights): Hotel Sanpi Milano, a charming boutique hotel in a very central location. Check out the courtyard garden for an evening cocktail!

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Oscar Wilde Tours
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Oscar Wilde Tours is the only tour company focused on LGBTQ+ history, culture, and art. We offer live and virtual "LGBTQ+ Secrets" tours of many different art museums, cities, palaces, and so on. We also offer several multi-day LGBTQ+ history and art tours a year. In 2023, we are offering Germany (Sept 10-19), Italy (Sept 21-30), and Greece (Oct 1-10).

Reviews

I'm usually hesitant about traveling with group tours, but this one was exceptionally excellent! Berlin and Munich are very different cities, culturally and architecturally, so they offered an interesting contrast of German experiences. The overlay of gay history gave a dimension to the tour that was unique and fascinating. That, in addition to traveling with a group of gay men, gave me a sense of belonging that is often missing when traveling to new places. The group was small and all the members were interesting and collaborative, so it felt very comfortable from the very beginning. In terms of site seeing, we covered many of the important sites which had a gay story to be told, but were also important in and of themselves. There was plenty of "free time" to explore other sites, like museums etc., so the itinerary did not feel overcrowded or rushed. Andrew Lear is a fabulous host/guide! All of the arrangements (hotels, guides, meals) were well chosen. And Andrew is so knowledgeable that the tour truly was an educational experience. I would highly recommend Oscar Wilde tours to any gay man who wants a fascinating, enjoyable and educational vacation in interesting locales. Even if you've seen a city before, you probably haven't experienced it in the same way as you will with an Oscar Wilde tour! Dana R
By Dana R for Gay Germany History and Art Tour on Oct 22, 2024
Thanks for this lovely review, Dana. And especially, thanks for mentioning how great the group was: I'm not sure why, but our groups are always great. I'm glad to have had you in one of them. Hope to see you again!
By Oscar Wilde Tours on Oct 23, 2024
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I had a marvelous time in Germany via Oscar Wilde Tours. The tour was well planned and filled with so many interesting experiences and places to visit, many with LGBT+ significance. I also appreciated the scheduled free time, so that I could attend the Berlin ballet one evening; upon leaving the theater, there was an unexpected light show to end a very full day. I love those unexpected pleasures when traveling. Bravo Oscar Wilde Tours!
By Steven K for Gay Germany History and Art Tour on Oct 21, 2024
Thanks for the fabulous review, Steve. A pleasure to have you in the group! Hope to see you again soon.
By Oscar Wilde Tours on Oct 22, 2024
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We enjoyed the trip very much. We learned a great deal and we discovered amazing sights. The guides were informative and often witty. Our fellow travelers were interesting and considerate. I recommend the Oscar Wilde Gay Tours highly.
By Claude S for Gay Italy History and Art Tour on Oct 14, 2024
Thanks for the great review, Claude. It was a pleasure to have you and Linda in the group. I hope to see you again!
By Oscar Wilde Tours on Oct 14, 2024
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Congenial companions, spirited conversation, rich art and architecture. The trip ranged from expertly guided tours of the ruins of Paestum and Pompeii to a breezy, sun-drenched boat excursion around the isle of Capri. I was delighted by the quality of the homoerotic art we viewed and the range of the homosexual history we encountered. I only wish that the trip could have lasted longer.
By Raymond F for Gay Italy History and Art Tour on Oct 13, 2024
Thanks for your lovely review, Raymond. It's always a pleasure to have you in my groups, and I look forward to seeing you soon!
By Oscar Wilde Tours on Oct 13, 2024
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Wonderful trip! Andrew is very knowledgeable and enthusiastic about the Italian culture and history! Enjoyable group of people, well organized, and fun!
By Clyde A for Gay Italy History and Art Tour on Oct 12, 2024
Thanks for the great review, Clyde. I'm happy you came on the tour--hope to see you again!
By Oscar Wilde Tours on Oct 12, 2024
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