NUSHU is thrilled to partner with renowned psychotherapist and boundary expert Terri Cole on the 2025 Upstate Retreat!
This retreat is for high-functioning women seeking freedom, flow, and purpose by deepening their awareness of the conditioning that keeps them stuck in a cycle of codependency.
Movement, journaling, awareness, and inquiry are all tools we’ll use in our time together. This four-day retreat will help you connect with incredible women in a safe, nurturing, and judgment-free environment. Get ready to learn deep lessons, feel seen and held, experience friendship, and have a blast!
Drawing inspiration from Terri Cole’s new book, Too Much, this retreat will help you shift “from too much to just right,” so you can live a life that’s full of authenticity, freedom, and joy.
Are you the person everyone comes to when they’re in a jam?
Do you regularly accommodate others’ needs and preferences?
Does it feel like chaos will ensue if you don’t handle the travel plans, divvy up the check at group dinners, sort out your friend’s latest crisis, and so on?
If any of the questions above resonate, the odds are good that you are one of the overgiving, overextending individuals struggling with high-functioning codependency.
At this retreat, you can expect content and exercises that will help transform how you see yourself and stay centered in your own experience so that you can relate to others in a healthier way.
“How you feel, what you think, what you want matters. In fact, those things need to matter to you the most,” writes Terri. “By choosing the path of healing and recovery, you are coming home to yourself.”
We can't wait for you to experience Terri's brilliance and insights throughout the week.
Winter is the perfect time to rest and turn inward. The season lends itself to restoration and quiet contemplation. There’s no better place to do this than in the stillness and beauty of the Catskills’ vast forests and deep valleys. Although Scribner’s Catskill Lodge is only 2.5 hours from New York City, it feels like a world away. Situated on over 20 acres of mountainside to explore, this aesthetic lodge features thoughtful design, friendly service, and a perfectly curated food and drink menu.
Terri Cole
Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist and global relationship and empowerment expert and the author of Boundary Boss and Too Much. For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs. She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over a million people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see terricole.com.
Vanessa Cornell
Vanessa Cornell is a master space holder and the founder of NUSHU. She creates experiences of safety and transformation that invite you to shed your masks, access your truth, and connect deeply with others. Vanessa teaches others to hold powerful space through her signature course How To Hold Space and NUSHU Group Facilitator Training. In her teachings, Vanessa invites you to come home to yourself, embody your full humanity, find a place of deep connection to your inner guide, and claim your purpose and power.
We have answers! We know this experience is a big investment or maybe it's a little out of your comfort zone. If you have any questions about this retreat, please email cat@nushu.com to schedule a call!
The Shared Rooms are outfitted with custom furniture and two double beds. One of the Shared Rooms features an oversized private terrace with views of the Catskill Mountains, while the other features a cozy and inviting fireplace. The bathrooms have a walk-in rain shower with handcrafted terra-cotta tiles and custom-crafted bath amenities.
Guests staying in the Single Rooms can enjoy dark maple wood floors, custom furniture, and a king-size bed outfitted to reflect the rustic charm and natural beauty of the surrounding area while providing modern amenities and comfort. The bathrooms have a walk-in rain shower with handcrafted terra-cotta tiles and custom-crafted bath amenities. Some Single Rooms include a sitting area or fireplace.
Guests staying in the Premium Rooms can enjoy the glorious mountain views of the Catskills. Dark maple wood floors, custom furniture, floor-to-ceiling glass windows, a sitting area, and a private terrace reflect the rustic charm and natural beauty of the surrounding area while providing modern amenities and comfort. The bathrooms have a walk-in rain shower with handcrafted terra-cotta tiles and custom-crafted bath amenities.
50-minute treatment
Sessions
Daily sessions will be co-taught by Terri Cole and Vanessa Cornell. Movement, journaling, awareness, and inquiry are all tools we’ll use in our time together.
Movement
With the picturesque backdrop of the Catskill Mountains, we will provide ample opportunity to move your body and connect to nature.
Community
NUSHU brings together people of depth, heart, curiosity, and compassion through intentional programming and careful curation. Meet the community of open-hearted, kind, and intelligent women you’ve been craving.
Nourishment
Our meals are designed to nourish all parts of ourselves. Healthy and delicious, we aim to make you feel fully nourished and comforted. We are of course happy to accommodate any dietary restrictions, and you will have a chance to indicate your preferences when you register.
Restoration
Our greatest priority on retreats is giving you the space to relax, recharge, and feel fully taken care of. You can expect comfort and coziness at every turn of this retreat. You'll have full access to the sauna throughout the week, and for extra restoration, you can add on a massage treatment to your package.